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INFP Personality Type

 

INFP Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving.

Approximately 3-4 percent of the population.

The secret to success for an INFP is learning to develop realistic expectations, value compromise, and not to take things quite so personally.

INFPs value inner harmony above all else. Sensitive, idealistic and loyal, they have a strong sense of honour concerning  their personal values and are often motivated by deep personal belief or by devotion to a cause they feel is worthy. INFPs are interested in possibilities beyond what is already known and focus most of their energy on their dreams and visions. They are open minded, curious and often have excellent long-range vision. In day-to-day matters, they are usually flexible, tolerant and adaptable, but they are very firm about inner loyalties and set them very high – in fact, nearly impossible – standards themselves. INFPs have many ideals and loyalties that keep them occupied. They are deeply committed to whatever they choose to undertake – and they tend to undertake too much but somehow get everything done.

Although they demonstrate cool reserve on the outside, INFPs care deeply inside. They are compassionate, sympathetic, understanding and very sensitive to the feelings of others. They avoid conflict and are not interested in impressing or dominating others unless their values are at stake. Often INFPs prefer to communicate their feelings in writing, rather that orally. When they are persuading others of importance of their ideals, INFPs can be most convincing.

INFPs seldom express the intensity of their feelings and often appear reticent and calm. However, once they know you, they are enthusiastic and warm. INFPs are friendly, but tend to avoid superficial socialising. They treasure people who take the time to understand their goals and values.

Possible Blind Spots for an INFP

Since logic is not a priority for INFPs, they sometimes make errors of fact and are unaware that they are being illogical. When their dreams become out of touch with reality, others may see them as flighty and mystical. INFPs do well to ask the advice of more practical people to find out if their ideas are workable and useful in the real world.

Because they are so committed to their own ideals, INFPs have a tendency to overlook other points of view and can sometimes be rigid. They are not particularly interested in the physical surroundings, and often are so busy that they fail to notice what is happening around them.

INFPs may reflect on an idea much longer than is really necessary to begin a project. Their perfectionist tendencies can lead them to refine and polish ideas for so long that they never share them. This is dangerous, since it is important for INFPs to find ways of expressing their ideas. To keep from getting discouraged, they need to work toward becoming more action-oriented.

INFPs are so emotionally entangled in their undertakings that they are very sensitive to criticism. To complicate things further, they tend to demand too much of themselves as they aspire to their own impossibly high standards. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy, even though they in fact are capable of accomplishing a great deal. When INFPs are disappointed, they tend to become negative about everything around them. Trying to develop more objectivity about their projects will keep INFPs less vulnerable to both criticism and disappointment.

Because INFPs tend to try to please many people at the same time, it is hard for them to stand up for an unpopular position. They hesitate to criticise others, and they have a hard time saying no. When INFPs don’t express negative opinions about ideas or plans, others can be misled into thinking they agree with them. INFPs need to develop more assertiveness, and can benefit from learning how to offer honest criticism of others when needed.

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Do you want some more information on the difference between the personality scales?  Click one of these below

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What is the difference between a Sensor and a Intuitor?

What is the difference between a Thinker and a Feeler?

What is the difference between a Judger and a Perceiver?

Anthony Hilling

Anthony Hilling

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